Friends Only journals are the stupidest things ever. You end up with fifty fucking friends that you have to sort through every time you read your friends page. You might as well just privatize the really personal stuff and keep the rest public -- you end up doing the same thing anyway. I have a strict policy of only adding people to my friends list if I like them, and have spoken to them, and feel a connection, and find them interesting, etc., etc. AKA: Feel free to add me, but I'll only add you if you IM AND TALK TO ME. red handed blue on AIM.